It is very common for people to identify who they are with what job they do. In particular for men, much of their identity can get wrapped up in what job they do. So much so that it is common when meeting someone for the first time to ask “Who do you work for?” or “What job do you do?”

While it is understandable that our work does reflect something about us, because of how much of our lives are spent working, there is so much more to someone than just what job they do.

If I were meeting Abraham today, and asked him those questions I may only learn that he was a shepherd. I would be missing out on finding out about his close relationship with our Creator!

What if I asked David about his job when he was a shepherd and again years later when he was a king? Was he a different person because of the job he had? No. He was a man after God’s own heart as a shepherd boy and still as a king. I would miss out on getting to know David and his relationship with God if I only ask what job he does.

Our relationship with God and our obedience to Him defines who we are. What job we have and often how we perform in that job may reflect our inner character to others, but it does not define it. We should remember this principle as we conduct ourselves in the workplace or seek to find employment to provide for ourselves and those we love. Our job provides income and should be acceptable in light of God’s instruction, but we should not try to define or measure our value as a person by the job we hold. In fact, many well paying jobs can also be very demanding and compete to take time and attention away from God and family in the pursuit of wealth.

As I reflect, I think I am going to challenge myself to hold a slightly different focus when I meet folks in the future, even if they are asking me about my job. I want to engage them with an open ended lead in such as “Tell me about yourself.” That way they can tell me about their job or hobby if that is what they want to discuss, or about their walk with Christ or their family if they prefer. A simple adjustment may help open up more meaningful discussion even from the starting gate as come to meet someone.

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